Who makes the final necessary preparation of a girl’s bottom? Which of us tugs down that last veil between me and my most beloved target?
This is a control issue, of course. Making a girl suddenly that naked and that vulnerable is a moment of brightest elation for me. I have to smile at the sight, my pulse beats a little faster, the itch in my palm increases in intensity, so in most cases I prefer to do it myself, and I like to do it slowly, baring her cheeks and revealing that shadowy ‘tween space inch by tantalizing inch.
On the other hand, there is a lot to be said for simply ordering your girl to bare her bottom. In so doing, you force her to become complicit in her own chastisement, a harrowing augmentation to an already heavily fraught situation for her. This could of course become a battle of wills, if she is too embarrassed to accede, but a good Top is always up to a test of his moral strength, and eventually he will convince her that it will be much worse if she refuses.
Still, there is something so very visceral, even atavistic, about a man pulling a girl’s panties down, as is so clearly illustrated by the Waldo photoshop montage above. Deeds and not words control in this situation, as should happen on occasion. Sometimes words are not only unnecessary but they get in the way of the message. The message here is unmistakable so I will leave it at that.
Sometimes a girl may wish to show submission before the procedure even gets properly underway. Yanking down her own undies as if to say, ‘See, sir? I’m a good girl, I am!’ is another example of a silent message – unless of course she actually says it out loud, in which case the Top’s only recourse is to nod grimly and cover his smile with a brisk, no nonsense cough.
Still, overall I prefer the good old fashioned, reliable, ‘I’ve taken all the nonsense I’m going to take from you today, young lady, and these are coming down right now’ approach to knickers lowering.
And I have to think that my girl prefers this as well. She has no desire to be in charge, to be in control, let alone to voluntarily offer her tender bare backside to my hard, mean, awful hand. That she was responsible for getting herself into this predicament to begin with is bad enough. Anything over and above that is adding insult to really ouchy sting.
So whether she does it herself.
Or I do it for her, the end result is the same. But the getting there part is so much fun that I like to take my time.
That is all.
Recently I have been accused of, er, complimented on a forgiving nature and a warm heart.
It is true that I always forgive a girl when she truly apologizes, and the deeper her feelings of contrition, even if that contrition is brought on by strong, ouchy feelings of a more physical nature, the more readily and fully I forgive.
Moreover, if that deeply felt contrition is mirrored in a well marked bottom, I also am apt to take further forgiveness related measures, such as cuddling, petting, and perhaps even the application of emollient to the affected area. In short, after care.
This often is especially important when implements are involved.
I enjoy providing after care, of course, or I would not do it. I won’t say it is more satisfying than the arm exercise I did that caused the after care to be necessary in the first place, but once that stage has gone past, the time for forgiveness and reconciliation has arrived.
And what better way is there to show a girl that all is forgiven than to make her bottom feel better, with a bit of aloe lotion and some tender, loving care?
Someone asked me though, while I was in the midst of writing this post, ‘what about her sore spirit?’
That certainly is a valid question, and some girls’ spirits are more easily marked by a spanking than others, but generally speaking, it’s the forgiveness and reassurance that she is a good girl once more that should make that all right.
If it does not, then it is possible that the spanking did not take, and further treatment might be indicated.
However, it is also possible that one is simply dealing with a girl who finds it terribly hard to believe that she can be exonerated, expunged of her guilt, by such a simple and straightforward procedure.
And here it is incumbent on the Top to use all his manifestly expert skills of persuasion in order to convince her that this indeed is the case.
But then too, it is a Bottom’s responsibility to trust her Top. She has to let go of the guilt, to let go, and let him.
And when she does, then there is reconciliation.
If she does not … well, he can always try another tack.
That is all.
The purpose of asking the brats, er, girls who visit this blite to write their real or fantasized naughtiness was so that I could research the age-old, or perhaps weeks-old question, who are naughtier? The girls in America or English-speaking girls elsewhere in the world?
The response I received was quite telling, but before I reveal what I determined from the evidence presented, I will take a few moments to mention what would and should happen to a girl in my care who pulled any of these stunts.
1. This bit is from an American girl who never has been spanked, and who obviously really needs it, especially for running away and leaving her buddy to face the music alone. The young lady’s bottom would get spanked for a LONG time, and the scolding for irresponsible mischief would go on a bit longer. And by the way, it is a true story.
2. A girl who does not live in America wrote this one, and while it is not a true life adventure, the naughtiness of mind that inspired its creation is well worth a medium intensity, bare bottom session across my lap.
3. This one is a very true story, also documented elsewhere, and I need only concur with the outcome decided by the offended Top in the situation, and add a personal ‘well done.’ This girl is an American.
4. The mind boggling audacity of this group of overseas overachievers is truly breathtaking. I would take great pleasure in the challenge of sorting out all six miscreants, and since the area where the mischief occurred has a long tradition of plimsoll and cane, there would be a half dozen very sorry girls at the end of the day. They would also have to remove every shred of that ruddy cling wrap from the chap’s motor whilst wearing no knickers, just see if I don’t!
5. I’m not sure if this next one, from an American girl, is true or not. I rather think it isn’t, but in any case blaming someone who can’t defend himself for one’s own mistakes is a serious offense, and the hard spanking will come with a long telling off and a lecture on responsibility, delivered while the girl stands bare bottomed in the corner.
6. Here is one from an American girl who has only just stepped into this thing we do, so I decided to overlook the fact that what she suggests doing with her prince’s laptop could well get him fired. Her spanking then would be both preceded and followed by an extremely long lecture on how a girl, even a princess, properly deals with disappointment, and it is manifestly not by rendering a computer suitable for nothing except having a cup of hot chocolate spilt on its hard drive. I would invite her prince to observe so that he would know what to do next time she misbehaves.
7. The American girl who wrote this true life adventure has more than a mere inkling what can happen when she messes with implements, so anything I might add to what the practiced user of those implements did to her naughty hiney would be superfluous.
8. One would have thought that it would be American girls, car obsessed as this country is, who came up with automobile related mischief, but here again we find an English girl messing with her Top’s ride. And again, the detailed and devilish planning that goes into these pranks seems to be an English device, if not an English vice. I have to think at least part of this really happened, and if she were to bring me a dribble tin to drink from, a wet bottom spanking to fit the crime would certainly be in order, with a wooden bath brush, just to drive the point home.
9. This English girl needs a long, ouchy, bare bottom reminder to be sure of her facts before she acts. I am pretty sure this didn’t really happen, but again, the deviousness of mind that prompts such lurid misbehavior fantasies is an issue that ought to be addressed, strictly and on her bare bottom, before the ideas become too firmly planted in her psyche. This is one case where a preventive spanking is absolutely indicated.
10. Here is a truly naughty American girl, and unfortunately one who is somewhat idolized in these parts. And although this is a true story, there did come a day of judgment and atonement for the young lady, and I have reason to believe some serious repentance as well. Not that there never will be need for a repeat performance, because of course, mischief is only ever temporarily managed.
So there you have some brief notes on justice, recompense, and everything. No two girls are ever naughty in the same way. Even when they plan and execute naughtiness together, there are differences in intent, in level of satisfaction at the misbehavior accomplished, and in reaction to their just comeuppance once caught.
As to whether there is a quantifiable naughtiness differential between American girls and girls who are not, and which ones are in fact the more troublesome and mischievous, after due, serious, and thoughtful consideration, I have finally arrived at the definitive and indisputable answer.
Forty-two. You’re welcome.
That is all.
Pantalettes are a sort of long drawers worn by women and girls during the 1800s. You might remember the scene in Gone With the Wind, where Scarlet O’Hara and the other young ladies of the southern aristocracy removed their hoopskirts and crinolines so that they could take an afternoon nap before the main event at the barbecue. Those girls would have been scandalized by the very idea of thong undies, and no doubt faint dead away – assuming of course that there was a strong, handsome man, or at least a sofa, handy to catch them.
This longer, trouser-like fashion lasted for quite some time, probably into the early 1900s, simply because women’s dress styles changed so little, at least in their basic design. There was always a full skirt, usually long enough to completely cover the drawers, although the legs were delicately frilled and trimmed with ribbon in most cases, just in case someone did happen to see.
And of course, as with any of milady’s underpinnings, there had to be provision for her comfort, usually in the form of an opening behind, often secured with ribbon sewn into the waist, and tied at the back. This made the preparation of her bottom for a spanking somewhat of an effort, but still much less of a task than if she were wearing bluejeans, for instance.
As with any item of girls’ underwear, pantalettes also could be lowered completely for maximum exposure and hence, embarrassment, and also for its hobbling effect. The same is true of modern day panties tugged down to a girl’s knees or ankles and left there, with orders that they go no farther whilst she is being walked to her corner.
So even though styles change drastically over time, form still follows function, and baring a girl’s fundament in aid of discipline always will be a pleasant learning experience for Top and Bottom alike.
Well, perhaps more one than the other, but even that is debatable.
A few days ago, Bree put a link to a drawing in the comments section, and said it scared her. Kaki could not follow the link so I grabbed the picture and appended it to Scarlet’s book review in the last post, along with a rather flippant comment about how I was surprised that anyone would find such a drawing scary.
But of course such drawings are scary, or exciting, or both. Certainly I find them exciting, so I rounded up a few more samples of that artist’s work and bunged them up here.
Not that I want to scare anyone, but the artist happens to be a personal favorite so I thought I would share.
The artist’s unique style makes his work easy to recognize, even when he doesn’t sign it, as in the drawing just above. The first drawing, of the Detention Room – okay, I have to admit that a Detention Room like that would be quite scary indeed – is signed Julian Guile.
In this unsigned drawing, the same girl, or at least her sister, is presented in a similarly perilous situation, so we are safe in assuming it is drawn by the same artist.
His technique is quite simple and straightforward, to draw a thoroughly adult girl’s body but then to put a much younger girl’s face on it, which allows a certain kind of adult girl – many of whom hang out here – to instantly identify with not only the girl in the drawing, but the situation in which she finds herself, i.e., invariably the sort of situation that results in a very sore hiney for her.
Then too, a Top who views the drawing is welcome to replace the somewhat generic little girl face with one perhaps closer to his heart, and of course his lap.
But now here we have the same girl, or at least a close family member, but signed by someone called Thorn. (Just FYI, if you have trouble making out the small print, just click the picture and it will pop up full size in a separate window.)
Thorn is the name I have associated with this artist for quite some time, and until I pulled these out of the files for inclusion here, I never even noticed the Julian Guile signature on the other ones.
One has to guess that both names are fictitious in any case, but speaking for myself only, Thorn makes a better nom de crayon for this sort of art.
And again, as far as scary is concerned, any girl who displeases an older Top who owns a paddle like that, as this girl obviously did, really ought to be scared, especially when he drags down her knickers whilst telling her off.
It is very likely indeed that there would be much more red color added to any depictions of subsequent scenes.
I hope you’re all right, Bree. Deep breaths, now.
That is all.